Sunday, May 19, 2013

Soulmates

I don't believe in soulmates.

Even as I wrote that, all I could think about was my future husband/boyfriend/whatever, out there and I feel sorry for them. It must be depressing for them that their future partner doesn't believe they're the only one for them.

Let me explain myself: I believe there are a certain number..plenty of people you're compatible with, around you. And that's around you, near you, not in the world. What's the difference? I believe there's plenty of people near you that you could "fall in love with", be soulmate-y-ish with. So that works out as a LOT of people you're compatible with in the world as a whole.

It's a very depressing way of looking at it, I know. But it's really what I believe. I even have reasoning for it. If soulmates existed and there really was only one person in your lifetime in the whole world that you belonged with, barely anyone in the world would meet that person and be with that person. But that's not how it is, most of the population is happily with someone.

I guess in the end, if you believe in soulmates you have to believe in fate, or God or some sort of higher power. And maybe that's why I don't believe in soulmates either.

I just wonder if, when I meet "the one??", if I'll change my mind.


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